Marriage & Family

Tangled up in Love

 Top: BB Dakota Collective Jeans: BB Dakota Collective and these

Boots: Last years... similar are these 

I need to express to you about these skinny, stretch jeans!! They are the Khloe of the BB Dakota Collective collection. I linked the black ones because those are the exact ones that I am wearing and I own both and can't get enough of them. They are THE most comfortable jeans ( I feel like I can't even say they're jeans because they do not feel or fit like it) They're simply amazing!! If you need a staple black skinny jean for fall...Get these ones!! I absolutely love a nice denim button down as well, it can literally go with SO much!!

So...this has been weighing on my heart a bit and I feel like I need to write a little bit about marriage! Perfect day to go with my sweet family photos. (yes, I consider my husband and our furry child our family)

No, I am not perfect, I am not a perfect wife, and no I certainly do not know everything, BUT I have been married a year and maybe I can tell you a little about how we've made it close to perfect. Yes, I'm sure some of you will say, "Oh honey, you're still in the honeymoon stage." "You wait." Well guess what, BRING IT ON! I will strive to keep my honeymoon stage for life! 

I have been seeing all these divorces lately, all these sweet couples giving up and getting divorced..even with kids and it breaks my heart! Truly...  No I do not know your situation and I am NOT judging you at all, I'm just writing what's on my heart. 

I have been through several trials and tribulations with friends and their marriages, etc... and most of the issues that have come up usually have to do with ONE being SELFISH. That is one of the most common issues that come up...  As for me and my marriage... I try and always put Rocky first, always think about how this decision will affect him and I not just me. I chose to get married to the love of my life, so that means you choose to give up YOUR freedom personally to become ONE together. Yes, you are still your own person, (and never forget that) but you are now thinking of the 2 of you and not just ME. I try to always make my husband feel as special as possible! Always feeling loved, always letting him know how much I appreciate him and what he does for us. He is the most selfless hard working man I know and he needs to know how much I appreciate him, daily. I try and ALWAYS send him love texts and calls throughout the day, just in case he's having a bad day ... he can think of coming home to a loving home and a loving wife! I try to always support his hobbies and do everything with him!! I think it is SO important to do everything with each other, do his hobbies and he'll do yours! Rocky is such a trooper when it comes to that, he supports me with EVERYTHING I do and that makes my heart so warm! So I then want to do and support everything he chooses to do! Try not to find something wrong with your husband (or bf or whoever) We ALL have flaws! No one is perfect!! I never pick apart my husband and poke fun at him, I would NEVER! Because I certainly would never want him to do that to me. I feel like I'm here to bring him up, to make him feel good about himself and feel confident!! Confidence is so sexy to me! I want my husband to feel proud! Proud of his life, wife and family, not feel insecure about anything. I HATE Jealously!!! hate, hate, hate it!! Unless you've been given a reason, then why are you jealous? Your spouse CHOSE you! That means he thinks your something!! how special is that... I do not agree with yelling at each other, and I do not agree with fighting. COMMUNICATION is HUGE!!! As uncomfortable and awkward as it is, just talk it out. Bring it up! You will be so thankful after you do so because now that weight has been lifted off your shoulders  and the issue is gone,  rather than boiling UP! 

(Trust me, I have learned along the way!!) I have not always been like this and neither has he. I just try to learn from every mistake, every situation! I know I have so much more learning to do, but I'm ready for it! 

And we believe if you keep GOD at the center of your relationship you can get threw anything! We truly have been blessed with finding each other and being able to share our lives together! I love my husband more than words and I cannot imagine my life without him!! Be thankful for your marriage and work threw it! Trust me you will overcome whatever you are going threw and you will come out stronger than ever before, I have seen it happen!

 Keep things fresh! Go on dates! Love on each other! Don't be ashamed of holding hands in public ... he's your husband! Not some fling!

Be LOVE~choose LOVE 
GOD - RESPECT - SUPPORT - HONESTY -  

Have a lovely day & truly... Thank you for reading and following along!!

xo!